Is This Right for Me?

A quick guide to help you know whether Ask Dr. Ayd is the right kind of support for your situation.

You're in the right place if:

  • You feel overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure what to do next
  • You want clear, grounded guidance, not long-term therapy
  • You prefer written communication rather than Zoom or phone calls
  • You want a professional perspective on an emotional or relational situation
  • You need help making sense of confusing dynamics
  • You want to understand patterns, boundaries, or next steps
  • You value depth, insight, and honesty
  • You are comfortable reading a written plan
  • You're an adult (18+)

This is not the right service if you need:

  • Therapy
  • Diagnosis
  • Medication support
  • Crisis or emergency intervention
  • Couples counseling
  • Real-time conversation (phone, Zoom, texting)
  • Legal letters, documentation, or evaluations
  • Services for minors
  • Requests for immediate turnaround due to an emergency

What You Can Expect

  • A thoughtful review of your situation
  • Professional-level insight based on 30+ years of experience
  • A clear explanation of what's happening
  • What matters most
  • Step-by-step guidance
  • Boundaries and communication suggestions
  • Next steps you can use immediately
  • Everything fully written and delivered online

Why Written Guidance Is So Effective

Written clarity allows you to read slowly, absorb deeply, revisit when needed, and process at your own pace. Many people find written insight more powerful than a session because it is structured, direct, and does not rely on memory or recall.

  • No scheduling
  • No small talk
  • No pressure
  • No forgetting what was said
  • You get a clear, lasting roadmap

Common Situations I Help With

  • Relationship confusion
  • Family stress
  • Narcissistic or manipulative dynamics
  • Adult children issues
  • Estrangement
  • Boundary problems
  • Emotional overwhelm
  • Anxiety and rumination
  • People-pleasing and burnout
  • Caregiving stress
  • Life transitions
  • Feeling lost, stuck, or uncertain
  • Repeating patterns

If You're Unsure, Start Here

Most people aren't sure what kind of help they need - and that's completely normal.

The easiest way to find out is to take the first step: describe your situation (free), and I'll tell you honestly whether I can help.

Ready to Find Out?

Your first step is simple and free. Tell me what's going on, and I'll let you know if this service is the right fit.